| DOMESTIC VIOLENCE-SAFETY PLAN |
Plan to leave, even if you don’t think it will be necessary. Then, if you need to leave, you’ll be ready.
When you leave, take the following items:
Identification papers
Money
Car and house keys
Birth certificates
Checkbook
Medication
Social Security cards
ATM card
Medical Insurance cards
School records
Orders of Protection
Immunization records
If an argument is inevitable, attempt to move to a room where there are no weapons available (kitchen knives, guns, tools) and where there is more than one exit from the room.
Teach young children how and when to call 9-1-1. Identify a code word that your children will recognize as a signal to call the police.
Discuss a safety plan with your children and identify which neighbors they should go to for assistance.
An Order of Protection or Injunction Against Harassment can be obtained, though there is no guarantee that your abuser will abide by it. If you obtain an Order, keep a copy, and proof that it has been served with you at all times. Be sure your child’s day care center or school has a copy and knows to show it to the police, if a crisis should arise. Prepare a safety plan to use when you are at work or on your way to and from work. You should vary your route and if you can, don’t travel alone. Alert your employer of potential problems so that you can be assisted. Help is available. Consult your local shelter or safe home for further information on safety planning and other services that are available.
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